![]() It takes a lot to be the same obedient Sub on Saturday that you were on Monday. No matter which side of the power dynamic you are on, things can be tiring. You should always be sure that either as Dominant, Submissive, Slave, Master, Sir, Mistress, or what have you that you beware of “Burn out.” Burn out is what happens when you’ve been in one of the spaces for a long time. Bonus points if you can actually teach your Little something. Even if they have made it before and its your favorite meal, but for the record. Bathtime is a good idea, and instead of having your Submissive cook, a great idea is to “teach” your Little how to make something. Get them blanket that reminds them of you, for Kitten, she has a “Wolfie” blanket, and Wolfie pillow. ![]() If you’re a Big, (Dom, Daddy, etcc.) If you notice your Submissive is stressing overly, or having a terrible day, Littlespace can a great way to get them through it. ![]() Littlespace can be a mindset where you become bratty, needy, clingy, and uncaring for bad things around you. Littlespace is a delicate space, but often playful, quirky, cute, and fun to enjoy, be it as Big or Little. Pretend that bad things just don’t exist. ![]() Getting into Subspace is a matter of either submitting, or being disobedient until you feel that sense of control.Īs a Dom/Daddy to Kitten, Someone coming from a rough childhood, and really never getting to experience being a child, I must admit that I fully understand this space, where you feel like you’ve been an adult all your life, and you just want to feel care free for a while. Yes, falling upwards, because it’s unlike anything you will ever feel. It’s like a free fall straight up into the sky. (While still respecting your limits.) You do what the Dom says, when they say it, with a complete trust that its for your own pleasure. Subspace overall is the mind set of complete submission. Starting with small commands like these, that show I want to take control, and make Her feel good, getting Her mind ready to really submit. Starting with say, directing her to fill up a warm bath, her favorite bubbles or a bath bomb, and to relax. For example, Being farther away from Her I have to set up scenes in her mind most of the time. When I want to get my Sub into Subspace I often take steps to show Her that I want her comfortable. Sometimes I find myself enjoying it when I reward Kitten with a night of control. But let’s talk about Subspace, shall we?įor one, what a space to be in. If the Dom is capable, this can be an extremely rewarding space for the Sub as well. Perhaps it would be having the Sub kneel, putting on a play collar, or a list of sexual tasks for the Sub to complete. Entering Domspace usually has “triggers” or a protocol you would follow to get the Dom into that mood of complete control and confidence. You cannot stop your mind from planning every move, orchestrating the scene in front of you and it truly is a wonderful place to be mentally. When you reach Domspace your deepest desires become known, you’re overcome by your desire to please your Sub, and yourself. Your word is your Sub’s command, and it shows. It’s a moment where you feel completely, irrevocably in control. Remember?ĭomspace is a very revealing place to be in. There are also Slavespace, Masterspace, and a few more that are more kink specific, but we’re simply giving you an introduction the world at large. Being rather inexperienced with the masochism side of BDSM, I’d rather direct you to someone else with better information than to misinform any of you here. The spaces are numerous, and I will only be explaining the ones I am closely in understanding with.
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